Saturday, 16 February 2013

Setting a positive mindset

Hi and assalamualaikum w.b.t

One day where I have a lot money to buy things (bajetnya), I went to a supermarket and was window shopping. While I was reviewing stuff and such, my eyes caught to a couple. This couple look young. Well whats the big problemo with that? I mean nowadays common la kan couples everywhere.
 However they look pious! The girl wearing so called 'tudung labuh' . They also being accompanied by 3 girls that also wear 'khemah' as Aisyah Syakirah said. :) What really caught my attention is that they are holding hands. Very the eratt you knoww. Soooo, please choose your answer.

What are their relationship?

A) Biological brother and sister
B) Married couple
C) Couple with no illegal relation.
D) I don't know!!!

So, if you choose A and B as the answer, congratulation you have a POSITIVE MINDSET.

They maybe brotha and sista. They maybe newlywed couple.

Set up a positive mind so that it will not lead to fitnah. Being judgemental all of the time can give a bad mindset. Always think that they are doing sin. Always think that they are doing bad stuff.

No no no. Muslim and muslimat must always have positive mindset (husnuzon).

In Al-Quran also Allah have said:


يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ ۖ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا

“Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jauhilah kebanyakan berprasangka, karena sesungguhnya sebagian tindakan berprasangka adalah dosa dan janganlah kamu mencari-cari kesalahan orang lain” (Al-Hujurat : 12)

And even so if the couple are not married and have no legal status between them, we must not said anything. Du'a for their taubat and hope that they realized with what they are doing. 

Till then, 

Jazakallahu Khaira.

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

No comments:

Post a Comment